Hi my name is Cindy. I thought i would give this a try again. I am looking for someone who is around my age. Looks are important to me, within reason. I like men who take good care of themselves. I believe if you care about yourself you are capable of caring for others. Narssicistic men need not reply. That was tough to spell! I like working out because it relieves stress. My job is working with children with developmental delays. There is alot of stress and joy at the same time. I quit smoking almost 2 years ago. Put on a little bit of weight but know that it will come off. I eat healthy, meaning I don't do fast food. Sorry, grew up that way. Italian heritage! I have 3 children. They are the loves of my life atnd keep it full. I was able to not date after my divorce and went through some tough times. I made it through because of the love of my children and dog! Can't forget Miah!