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56 year old man
Canyon Country, California, United States

Seeking:
women 33-42
Within:
50 Miles of Canyon Country, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

"Risk everything for love if you are truly human. Otherwise, leave this gathering. . . " -Rumi

Writing about myself is difficult, but required, so here's my brief ramble. ~~I feel that the focused pursuit of end results alone leads to unhappiness. For me, happiness comes through the process of getting where I'm going. Sharing that experience with a partner, and taking part in their journey, makes the experience more meaningful. ~~I am a sane and loving person who connects well with others. I value friends and family and animals. I'm politically left of center and that is reflected in my work as a business owner, filmmaker, teacher, writer, and musician. I try to walk a fine line between being non-judgemental and making the decisions I must in order to get through each day. ~~I am an educated person with two masters degrees. As a musician I have performed with orchestras, sang backup with the Carpenters (I was very young at the time), gigged with numerous bands and scored hundreds of films and TV shows. My graduate degrees are in film and I currently make my living as a producer/director/writer and university professor and department chair. I am fortunate to make a living doing what I love to do. ~~My musical tastes are diverse; I appreciate every style. Rock, pop, jazz, classical, blues and alt country have a place in my heart. ~~I love great comedy and worship humor. I have a personal prescription that requires an hour of humor every day. My favorites include Chaplin, Marx Brothers, Eddie Izzard, Martins (Steve and Lawrence), Cleese, Woody Allen, Larry David, Stewart and Colbert. ~~I am spiritually tuned to the world but non-dogmatic. I am a panentheist whose beliefs are most closely reflected by Taoism but am comfortable with many traditions. I believe honesty is truly the best policy--nobody was ever caught telling a truth.

Rumi's advice was to risk everything for love. That appears to be the main reason we are here--to love and be loved. From my experience, relationships must have three elements to succeed: intimacy, commitment and passion. If any of these is missing, it just won't work. Having these parts in place is only one step. Balancing them with the needs and interests of the individuals and, at the same time, creating an environment that allows the main three to grow and evolve over time--well, that's the trick, isn't it? I believe it can be done. The binders that hold it all together are humor, openness, honesty and acceptance. I think we all want the same thing; to adore someone and be adored in return. A good relationship is worth working and persevering for.

Finally, I hate coathangers; they tangle, mock me and hide out behind the dryer.

Well, it appears that I am surprisingly capable of writing on and on about myself. I'll close by saying that if larger portions of the above ramble describe you, then there is a chance we could ramble together.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Basketball, Cycling, Golf, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I was always a dog person but came to appreciate the wonder of cats. It's all good!

Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Top source of pride and joy is playing music, dissecting movies with someone who also loves them as I do, sports, reading, writing, the theatre, politics, thinking, not thinking, doing. I like chasing my cats, too.

Favorite hot spots:

Geoffrey's, El Cholo, Sundance, Playhouses, MOCA, LACMA, New York, D.C., Honolulu, London, Paris, Wyoming. Wait. How about Urth, the Troubador, Hollywood Bowl . . . not hot enough? Where do you want to go?

Favorite things:

Daily Show, Colbert Report, Curb, Madmen, Sopranos (still!), Tootsie, Chinatown, Godfather, Breaker Morant, Bull Durham, Tin Cup, City Lights. Music: Lucinda Williams, Maria McKee, Beatles, Nick Lowe, John Hiatt, Shawn Colvin, Belle Brigade and more

Last read:

Blink, Outliers, Homegrown Democrat, Hound of the Baskervilles, Chaplin bio, Tina Fey, Joseph Campbell, Four Agreements, Tolstoy, LA Magazine, LA Weekly, Mother Jones, Creative Screenwriting, Adbusters, The Art of Being Human, your profile!

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

I am a filmmaker (writer-producer-director-editor), a musician (composer-arranger-player) and university professor (department chair). I love it all.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian

Born in Washington, DC, father was career Navy--traveled the country and lived in Hawaii, Virginia and California. Father's side, French with a dash of German, mother's side English with a pinch of Scottish. Basic honky, really.

Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
No preference

Raised Episcopal. Worked as a minister of music in several churches. I am, however, as a Panentheist (with helpings of Taoism and Buddhism), more broadly based in my religious/spiritual beliefs and practices. I respect all faiths and draw from most

Languages:
English, French, German
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have two masters degrees in film--one in production/film history and the other in film and TV producing. I also have certification in mediation, a professional cerfiticate in screenwriting a BA in music and minors in English, History and Theatre.

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