I have absolutely no idea how to describe myself. I have been told that I am kind, generous, funny, quick witted, and brutally honest with a generous sprinkle of sarcasm. I suppose that I would have to agree with that description, although I would increase the amount of sarcasm.
I feel that I am in a good place in my life right now and am looking for someone to make it just that much better. I am working on my Bachelor's degree, looking forward to a career change soon and just had a big change in my living situation. I feel like I am "movin' on up" and want someone to share that with.
So here goes the honesty. I am a bit of a "fly by the seat of my pants" kind of person, am perpetually late for social events and really do not like deciding where to eat or what bar to stop at. When I say "it doesn't matter where we go" I actually mean that. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends and the venue is not really that important to me, although I do love sipping on a good beer on a patio.
I can be very ladylike when I need to but I am not a super girly girl for the most part. I would rather see an action movie than a chick flick, I hate wine and love good beers, and I would rather work on a car than do a craft project. That being said, I do love to cook, I know how to sew, I am a pretty decent housekeeper and I have a bit of a weakness for purses and shoes that I "just have to have!"
I have had my share of failed, and notably awful, relationships but I am tired of settling. I'm not looking for perfection, in fact I would prefer not perfect, I'm looking for someone who I think is super awesome and who thinks the same way about me. Someone who can fit into our lives and be a good role model for my child, who is the most important person in my life. I do not need or want anyone to take care of us, I have been doing it for the last nine years. I know that there are nice, funny, intelligent, motivated guys out there and am hoping that I can find one!