I'm looking for someone to enjoy life with...to be honest, im not looking to casually date, but I am looking for that one person to build a healthy, loving, fun and sexy relationship with. If you're still getting over a past love or aren't sure you're ready for something serious(if it presents itself)-please go on to the next profile. I'm not looking to immediately jump into something serious- we all know that takes time...but, please be in a healthy place if the opportunity presents itself:)
I am a happy person and don't need someone to do that for me...I enjoy being outdoors, being social, traveling, keeping in shape doing just about anything that gets the heart rate up! My current physical passions: I'm into training for triathlons(finished my first two tri's this summer),yoga, martial arts, hiking, snowboarding,flag football league, basketball , softball, cross country skiing, paddleboarding. Pretty much any outdoor activity... You name it- chances are I play it!
There are times when I like to go out for dinner and have a couple cocktails, and other times, where I prefer to stay in, cook a nice meal and watch a movie. My big party days are behind me for the most part; I would much rather spend a day being active than being hungover on a couch...
I'm introspective(hopefully you are too), selfless, compassionate, passionate, engaging, engaging, curious about human behavior, personable, sometimes irritable when hungry, silly, self-depricating,athletic, love to read, music lover and have a heart of gold. I may not be your typical guy in the sense, that if my partner and I have a disagreement/fight, I prefer to "talk it out", rather than let it fester.
I can be a silly goose- I definitely don't take myself too seriously!
I volunteer as a coach for the San Diego Special Olympics golf program, I also coached football for a local high school(not my full time job). I own a Nutraceutical Company: it takes up a lot of time but I still make plenty of time for that special person:)
About my partner: This list is so subjective but here are a few things that I look for in a prospective partner: loves life, positive, enjoys the outdoors, keeps in shape, has a social conscience, can be silly, sexy, thoughtful, looks at issues from all angles, doesn't take self too seriously, good communicator, enjoys traveling, music lover(will attend concerts/ music festivals with me:), evolved...
I work hard and enjoy the finer things in life just like the next person, however material things don't hold high value in my book; if you are overly concerned with status and money- I'm not your guy. If you haven't done the work to be in a good space for a healthy relationship- I'm probably not your guy, either. I've developed my own saying after many years of dating and relationships "People aren't prepared for what they think they're ready for..." Don't take this the wrong way: I'm far from being the Dalai Lama, but I have cleaned up my side of the street.
I strive to live a balanced, fun and happy life. Hopefully, you do, as well!
Thanks for reading and good luck to everybody in your personal search!
Lets have some fun! .
