There exists a delicate equipoise between being ready and being willing. I am truly ready to find one special man but I am NOT willing to redefine what I consider to be the RIGHT man for me simply to be with someone. There are an infinite number of possiblities-very few real opportunities-and in the end, only one man is meant for me. I declined to complete many of the pigeon-holed statistics because I do not find myself so easily defined. I am a sensual creature who is comfortable in most social milieus but I cherish private moments most. I use the phrase that is common in contemporary Japanese culture to describe myself - CARNIVORE. I don't subscribe to the BBD ("bigger/better deal") method of dating -I will not date a man that I KNOW I would eventually leave. The man for me is an ALPHA-male....passionate, articulate, well-traveled, envied by some, admired by all. Yet somehow, he goes against the grain and is satisfied with ONE woman by his side. Don't pretend to be a "one-woman-man" if you are not. To the right man, I offer unlimited loyalty, generosity, and endless attention and affection. I know how to appreciate a man....you must have have an open mind and a huge heart. (note: I did not say an open wallet and a huge *&#% )
