I am really ambitious and focused about reaching my goals! I am also pretty independent and not interested at all in being "taken care of." I like to laugh and have fun...I laugh at myself, so you need to be care free and not to arrogant! Yet, taking charge can be nice!!! I don't want to "wear the pants" so to speak...I just want to work hard, live life to its fullest and share that with someone that can be my partner, my friend and well...you know! Also, you MUST have compassion to work with people! I am really excited to become an EMT, its the driving force of my motivation right now and why I work so hard! One thing though that is VERY important...if you are insecure and need a lot of attention, then I am not the woman for you! I am independent and secure with myself and do not like "Drama" at all!!! I like MEN...not boys! I'm down-to-earth, I like to cook, take care of my home and my family! Oh and that's another thing...my family is really important to me! It's now just the women...my life, my Mom! Some may think this is odd, but I was raised to believe that your family, your spouse and your home are the most important things in life and should be cherished and taken care of! If you are not close to your family, that is going to be a deal breaker! I was also raised to take care of myself...I work-out, do my nails, get my hair done and wear dresses! I believe in hard-work, yet I enjoy nice things and looking nice too:) My ideal partner is someone that is funny, handsome, in good shape, likes to be outside, not afraid of hard-work, helps others and just has fun in life! I shouldn't need to say this, yet I'll throw it out there..if you do ANY drugs at all...do not email me! I'm going to be an EMT, was in USCG, I'm a Lifeguard and my ex along with many, many of my friends are in Law Enforcement, so needless to say...I will NEVER be ok with drugs!