I'm a bit hesitant to list out physical or personal traits I look for in a person. In the end the beauty of attraction is that whatever you "thought" you wanted gets thrown out the window and your heart, soul and gut take over and guide you. With that being said, I've lived enough and dated enough to know some qualities that are important to me.
I have a big personality and I make decisions all day long so I tend to be drawn to men who can balance that in me. I like men who are strong, naturally confident (without needing to prove anything), care for others and who in some way teach me how to be a better person. I like someone who laughs easily and has passion for what they do in life, be that family, friends, work, travel, love, whatever. I think an exceptional man is one that appreciates a woman who is easy to be with, inspires me to be better than I am and generally thrives on making people feel good. I'm a very giving person with my love, my time, my attention and I want someone who not only enjoys giving back but finds the time to be able to give back to those they love. I love real people and real moments.
People who know me would say I am cute, fun, fiesty, intelligent, a bit inappropriate and competitive (especially when it comes to sports). I am passionate about my family, my friends, my dogs and my career. Although I am ambitious, work will never make me lose focus of my belief that life is about the moments; the random, silly moments that just happen when you live fully and are open to them. I giggle when I think of my life so far :) I'd say I am a "guy's girl" but I'm also really feminine. I don’t get offended easily, and I love sarcasm. I am not jealous or controlling ... I think a good relationship is a mix of having a blast doing things together but also embracing alone time.
I like to do just about anything ... the more random the better. If it is active and adventurous I am pretty much down. I like to be social and be around other people but then I love my down time. It's a great balance to find someone who can keep up with me intellectually, hang with my friends, hit up a crossfit workout, and then make dinner together and cuddle up at night.
Me in a nutshell :)