I am a father of 2 boys (ages 8 and 10) who is divorced and self employed. My kids come first but after being divorced for 5 years I think I'm ready to make some time for myself. Im looking for someone who understands the time that is needed to raise 2 boys. They live with me half the time, so that does allow me some time for someone else. I am looking for someone who wants to have fun and are at the point in their life where they can have a mature relationship. Going to bars all the time is not for me. I 'm looking for something more than the empty relationship you find at places like that.