It actually pretty simple, I'd like to meet someone who I can make feel special and she makes me feel special. Honesty and loyalty is essential, it doesn't have to come out on the first date. I absolutely give that and expect the same. I think I'm pretty flexible after that. The rest is , chemistry, If the relationship sparks. the rest all falls into place. If you fall for someone, going out is great, staying home can be thrilling. Exciting times and quiet times all blend into a wonderful relationship with each other, A wonderful candle lit dinner, a Broadway play or cooking together after a day at work and we give each other foot rubs and back rubs on the couch. Someone who wants to talk about today, think about tomorrow and beyond. Holding hands when we walk, walking with arms around each other at the right time.