i am looking for someone with a true heart and good soul that is non-judgemental and has the gift of seeing inner beauty in someone and not looking for a barbie doll servant. i am an attractive confident woman whose lived all over the country traveled the world and is a disabled gulf war navy veteran i have much life experience and amartistic ,witty and very intellegent which are qualities i look for in a mate my confidence and esteem are usually quite high but in october 2010 i suffered a triple brain aneurism that required 3 major surgeries and during one of them i suffered a mild stroke i was totally paralyzed on my left side (good thing im a righty)iwas wheelchair bound for over a year and had to relearn to walk which i am capable of but still have a slight limp and wont b wearing 6 inch stiletto's again anytime soon like i wore when i worked as a burlesque dancer living in new orleans,la. everyday is a struggle and a fight for me i need help with things like tying, zipping and buttoning i cant put my own hair up in a ponytail and have to relyy on my mom or sis everyday who thank goodness live next door to me. family is the most important thing in my life, and then honesty and loyalty because im a firm believer in karma u get out of life what u put in all i want is to find someone like me with good morals yet still a sense of danger. i have alot of tatoos and piercings. i'm not shy and because of my brutal honesty i sometimes am mistaken for being rude but i have a heart of gold and put others before myself .i love animals and nature and am the person who always has everyones back i want to find someone like me that will look past my disabilities