I'm very fortunate with many things in my life. My friends and family mean everything to me. I spend my time with people who feel the same way. During the summer, I enjoy spending time at my Fire Island beach house with friends. Honesty is a MUST HAVE. There's an unexplainable "chemistry" when trying to meet the right person. That's what I'm looking for. I like a confident man...not an arrogant man. I'm on the shy side (at first) but when I'm comfortable around people, my humor comes out! Then I'm funny!! :) My friend calls me a "closet comedian." i have noticed that I can't be with anyone who is more quiet than myself...I find it just doesn't work. I'm also very laid back. I'm definitely not "high maintenance" and I'm looking for that same trait in my partner. i think a perfect date could be a nice bottle of wine, ordering in and great conversation...not for the first date, however:) I don't want just anyone knowing where I live:) If what I've written sounds to you like we could be a "match" I'd look forward to hearing from you.