Revised and updated based on messages and online chats. - A lot of us need to realize that here are things we don’t want to happen but have to accept, Things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go.. *same*- We all want love, affection, and happiness. Moi: a plethora of adjectives to describe myself: adventurous, curious,efficient,funny,spontaneous, unusual,and zany at times. experiment has concluded and i would agree with the WSJ assessment of online dating: the more time you spendwaste on it, the less likely you'll meet the right one for you; stay with the tried and proven method of meeting in public places, doing the things you like to do, and find people in the normal , everyday circumstances of life.