For my second go-round on match.com, I decided to wait until I could finally display "Divorced" as my relationship status. Creative expression has been a huge part of my life. I'm a musician who plays primarily drums; but I love guitar and bass as well. I've spent the last year or so learning to how to live a solitary existence. Why? For so many reasons. First, I still have yet to find that special person that I'm meant to be with. Second, I cannot settle for a relationship that looks "good on paper"...I already had that and that's why I'm here now! Also, although being alone is not by choice, I will not get into a relationship as a way to justify my existence or self worth. If that makes sense to you, were on the same wavelength! I'm good with who I am. I'm a proud center-left liberal and I make no apologies for that. But that doesn't mean sabotaging a Hummer dealership is my idea of a hot date, OK? However, if you watch Fox News for anything more than a good laugh, then this probably won't work.
Having loads of free time, I've taken up exercising. When the weather improves, I run and ride my bike. I would love to have someone join me for that...but it's not a prerequisite. In fact, I do not consider myself athletic and I do not purposely seek someone who fits that profile. But I'm not opposed to that either.
As for the "ideal" woman...you should be cool with all of the above. But you don't have to necessarily be a music, politic, or exercise junkie. I am attracted to women who have already made all the big mistakes in their younger days and know what they want now. If you're kind of shy, that's fine, but confidence is a real turn-on. Yes, I need to find you physically attractive, but that has so much more to do with chemistry than your physical appearance.
