think it is very important to be best friends with the person you are going to spend your life with, otherwise what's the point? You are supposed to laugh, and be silly and genuinely be better together, than seperate. A great relationship is one that you are the best version of your self. And it is always a dealbreaker when your friends don't like em.
I like spending my Sunday afternoons having coffee, eggs National Post, probably itching to sit at a pub in the afternoon and try and have as many hilarious poignant conversations as possible. Brains banter win over abs and mediocrity.
I am going to be a better cook this year, I promise.
It is very appealling when people can be themselves around you and it's easy to vibe. relationships, friendships whatever, it is important to be able to be yourself and comfortable with whatever happens.
Funny, interesting, stylish, intelligent, thoughtful, cute, charming, conversationalist, emotionally real mature, happy. If you are that plus you like watching Parks and Recreation, and enjoy drinking UNO on a Saturday, have read a book in a year and generally would be apt to dancing around the kitchen on Fajita Night, then send me something sweet. :)
ps -- we both know coffee is a cop out first date. if you cannot commit to a couple drinks or any time frame over 20 minutes....errrmm....probably not the girl for you.