Let's start with some notes back and forth, a phone call when the time is right, coffee, and look for chemistry.....
I like people and love to share new experiences, adventures. Women are the window to the world. I can communicate, but I so value a woman's intuition, her insights.
That is why I am on Match. There are so many wonderful women with great lives, great families, jobs, goals and dreams. Ladies I wouldn't be able to meet otherwise in my work-a-day world.
The German philosopher Goethe wrote "A man sees in the world what he carries in his heart" And my heart, or inside of me, is the first place I look if my day isn't going well. What can I do to make someone else's life just a bit better today? What new thing, approach, do I need to learn to be able to improve my interactions? I am a work in progress and always will be. I just thank goodness I've have the benefits of age to build upon. No way I'd want to go back to my 20's and 30's, even 40’s. Too much to learn. I am happy right where I am.
What do I value in the lady I am with? the same; the ability to look inside herself. Someone who is kind and compassionate to maybe those who are typically difficult to have compassion towards.
Struggles don't bother me. And drama? If we are actively engaged in our lives, I believe that drama will happen in life. We are humans with children, elderly parents, siblings, bosses, emotions, hopes, dreams, sad times, happy times. Machines are drama free. It is how we react to that drama that makes the difference