Selflessness and being able to trust. Someone who doesn't just think about themselves and what they want to do, but who considers my feelings as well. I don't mind my partner going out with his friends, but I don't want to play second fiddle in someones life. I want to be the person they confide in first, and who they look to for comfort. I'd do anything for the person I love, so I need someone who can trust that I'd never ever do anything to intentionally hurt them. I also need someone who is calm, and who doesn't blow up on the spot, or use me as their punching bag.