Well first and foremost, I am a mother of three beautiful children, they are my world, and I would not have made it through the last year without them. So anyone that I could have any interest in would have to be accepting of them, and know that they will always come first. Honestly, my thoughts on this, is that the man I end up with has to love my children first... then he is free to love me.
My friends describe me as difficult... lol but they also say that I am one of the most selfless people they have met. I am Irish and Native, so, by default I am stubborn. ;) I have been told I am also very patient. I don't see it, but being a single mother with three kids, I must have some patience there somewhere. lol I like to laugh, to be... comfortable. I am big on cuddling, watching movies, family nights... I also sing... a lot... so I love going out to sing. some even say that I am good at it. I also am looking to get involved with the Duluth Playhouse soon.
I have tattoos... a few of them actually... and am planning on getting more. Yes that will mean a large part of them will be seen when I wear a short sleeve or a tank top. Which... most of them can be seen by that now. lol
The person that I am hoping to have a relationship with needs to be someone who is sensitive, kind, good with kids, funny, and goal orientated. Someone who is not afraid of commitment, I am not looking for someone who puts labels on others or has their priorities mixed up with playtime vs work.
I have two jobs right now. One I work out of the home doing administrative work, and then twice a week I work at a local bar.
I have a few close friends, and I am loyal to everyone that I bring into my life and give my trust to.
So in a nutshell: I am looking for a nice guy, who loves kids, is confident in himself, but not cocky, who can stand with me not in front of me or behind me, who can hold me up when I need it, and will let me hold them up when they need it. Who understands that my kids are my world, and that I love hugs.