I am a widower with two great boys at home. I am committed at home as well as on the job. I like to have fun as long as my responsibilities are taken care of first. I really don't like games or guessing what's coming next. I think the secret to a long happy relationship is honesty and mutual respect for each other. I am looking for a friend first. I don't like to be idle, unless maybe I'm on the beach. I am not currently active on match
