I originally posted my profile in the middle of a very busy day and here is what I blurted out that first day just to get things started: "I just want a normal, good-looking, funny, well-adjusted, educated guy with a good head on his shoulders who will adore me...is that too much to ask?" Haha...oh my! I'm afraid I sound like a bit of a Princess: "All those willing to adore line up on the right lol!!" But I'm actually a very grounded, confident yet humble girl with so much to offer and if there is any Princess in me, it's only because this time around I am looking for the fairy tale - true, lasting love and attraction forever and nothing less. I got married at 21 (I don't recommend it ha!) and spent nearly 15 yrs with a good man, liking each other a lot and raising a beautiful son together, but things went bad and we lost that "spark." I want that spark now!! I'm very passionate, loving, caring, adventurous, friendly, and smart. I couldn't be happy if I wasn't helping others.
Chemistry is very important, it just is, for any couple. It's not so much about a specific look (I don't have a "type") as that pull of attraction you feel toward someone that makes u wake up thinking about them and go to sleep with a smile on your face knowing you will see them again soon. I think that strong connection is what holds everything together thru whatever life throws our way. Thru the rough times, if one can still crawl into bed with one's partner, snuggle up, and be intimate, everything else will fall away...arguments fade, the bad times don't seem so bad. And during the good times, (I can only imagine this because I was married for a long time to a man who left me lonely much of the time) it must be incredible to share new adventures and even the minor everyday "stuff of life." On that note, I can say that my photos are recent and though I like my photos, I think I'm even better in person cause my eyes are more blue and my face is always very animated. I definitely don't look 39 and I can't believe that I am!! ; )
What would I like to find in you? Well...everything. I want someone who I am so attracted to it makes me weak, someone smart with a good job, and someone kind who is as emotionally available to me as I am to him (if you don't know what "emotionally available" means, it's time for you to move on to the next profile). I don't want to feel lonely in a relationship ever again, esp when I have so much to give to the right person. A sense of humor is very important too. Make me laugh, and you're likely to snag me lol!! Since my divorce, I dated one person who gave me a taste of what real happiness with another man is like and that set the standard. I'm NOT looking for a carbon copy of him, but I am looking for someone who will hold me in his hand like a precious gem and allow me to take care of him as much as he takes care of me. We're all busy, but those little texts and messages that say "I'm thinking of you" go a long way. It's the little things, really. I don't want you to buy me things, I want you to give yourself to me, which is more precious to me than any material gift. I want to feel like part of a team with my man always know we have each other's backs no matter what. I have a very trusting nature so please do not abuse that. If you're only looking for a fling and not something real with the potential for a long-term relationship or have no picture, please move on. I'm not the girl for you.
I believe in keeping my son completely away from my dating. He will only meet a man if we have agreed on a long term commitment. But he is amazing and though he has a good father, another steady, great male role model in his life would be welcome someday.
So that's a little of me. If you would like to know more, just ask. I have nothing to hide and no games to play : )