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35 year old woman
Mount Lebanon, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
men 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Hello!

Kismet is my favorite word, Metallica is a band I sometimes like but not always. They are certainly not my favorite. Just getting that out of the way to avoid harsh or overly-enthusiastic judgments on my music taste ;)

I'll start with what I am not. I'm not a Pittsburgh native and just moved to Pennsylvania in 2012. I am not convinced these blurbs capture a person's true essence or potential for likability but here goes everything: I can be described as pleasantly assertive, animated, unconventional, youthful, passionate, empathetic and intelligent. I am a night owl. I read voraciously whenever possible, and it isn't always possible, unfortunately. Love to travel and explore when I am not being a lazy homebody stirring my crock pot. I do what I can to keep life interesting, (monotony is the enemy), and I usually find something fascinating in every person I meet or place I go.

I am casually looking for something semi-serious or quasi-frequent with long-term potential. I am not good at faking interest in others. I don't know how to exist in ambiguous states. I did not join match to have random, meaningless hookups and I don't do the poly-amorous thing. I have learned that I need to spell this out in my profile or incorrect assumptions are made, usually by a fellow who moves fast when I prefer slow and steady. I would like an effortless chemistry with somebody "normal" (a stable, non-criminal professional who doesn't text x-rated pictures after I give out my number). I admit that I am somewhat shallow in wanting an aesthetically pleasing mate. I am not a 10, don't need to be with a 10, but physical attraction is almost as important as personality dynamic. I am typically attracted to masculine, funny, cerebral men with confidence, a strong sense of their own identity, excellent grasp of the English language, wide range of interests and a rational mind (but not so rational that he puts being right above all else). I strive for harmony and equality in my relationships. OK, I usually dominate but I don't set out to, I promise! Blame it on my extroversion and persistence to get what I want.

Know much about the 16 Jungian temperament types? Mine is spot on as far as my temperament, which is not to be confused with personality. I usually have effortless chemistry with INTJs. I'll share my type if you share yours.

I am still on great platonic terms with my ex and have no emotional attachments to him other than as a friend and my amazing child's father. He is very much in the picture but he and I have been over for several years. I don't have drama or toxic people in my life and I like it that way. Most of my close friends growing up were guys and I really am that girl who can "hang out" whenever and will have plenty to say on any topic, a wallflower I am NOT. Apparently I AM the type of person who uses all caps for emphasis. My humor can be dry and ironic and self-deprecating in a Tina Fey-like way. I laugh at myself and want to laugh at/with you, too. As you must know, life isn't all laughs, but wherever fun and hilarity could be carved in, all the better to make life less of a money-driven slog.

Ideally, I would be happiest with a man who means what he says, does what he wants, is who he is and wants to be with me and me alone.

Just putting this out there: I don't always respond to emails, winks or what have yous but I am grateful for any inquiries I receive.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Thinking about bringing a dog into my home this summer or next...and apparently I have agreed to grow-a-frog :/

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI
For fun:

going out to eat, lunch in the park, drinks on a sunny patio, conversation with smart, funny people, lounging around with no agenda, board games, blanket forts, star or wave gazing, rabbit holing on wikipedia, taming and/or enabling my wild kid

Favorite hot spots:

Love northern Michigan in the summertime, Seattle, Colorado, San Fran, New York City, Paris, Disney World, Canadian Rockies, Yellowstone, Banff, my own backyard. I always feel at home in a book store, a dive bar, a rock concert or a park.

Favorite things:

Staying up late, sleeping in, movies, riding bicycles, fast cars, spa treatments, coffee with dessert, impulse shopping, hugs, vacationing, pontooning, kayaking, hiking, meeting like-minded people, laughing until it hurts, cuddling, being in love

Last read:

Fall of Giants by Ken Follett, The Interestings by Meg Wolitzer, Slate, Gawker, Buzzfeed, CNN, Jezebel

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
About average
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I have a well-founded suspicion that I am a scion of Vikings

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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