Alas here I am. Grew up in a small town called Ojai. Introvert, down to earth, my career is set, easy going, level headed, adventurous, love the outdoors, museums/galleries, cooking, wine, board games with good friends (champion of Boggle), I'm very affectionate. I enjoy talking and most of all listening. I don't play games, lie, cheat, or take advantage of someone's trust. Sarcastic as hell - if you can't deal with that, you might as well stop reading. ;-)
Who am I looking for? Honesty is the best policy, right? Great sense of humor. Someone with a strong head on her shoulders that will speak her mind. Don't wait for me to figure it out, cause I might not. I don't read minds. I would like to meet someone that want's to create memories. Camping, road trips, vacationing together ( i love to travel), jogging along the beach, hanging with friends, flea/farmers market, watching movies at home or out.
I know the first few dates can seem like an interrogation. How many bro/sis, where does your family live, what food you like, what music you listen to, etc. I guess that's why I like to mix it up with doing something active so you don't have that quiet time where you're wondering what to say next just to fill the void. No pressure, let's just enjoy the day and at the end, be honest. If you don't think there is a spark let each other know. If you like to see them again say hey I had a nice time we should do this again soon. No use in wasting each others time on a text message that will never come. So help me out here cause if you don't I have to go to the Russian mail order bride site next. Lol. Nothing but love for you ladies....