It's quite interesting when I need to describe myself in the best possible way. There's not a set of characteristics I can easily list off the top of my head because I'm an extremely versatile and adaptable gal. Pause and Visualize how wind and air moves. That's how I travel through life. What awaits at a corner, I'll be ready for it!
A few things about myself ( I'm not a quick giveaway, nor will I describe everything about me in the max characteristics in this box). The guy of my dreams will be SO lucky to know everything about me IF he can catch me ;-).
BUT I lead a pretty active lifestyle. I thrive in the excitement that life has to offer, I enjoy eating healthy (but keep it balanced by eating out to my fav. places, or having a glass of red), I'm an optimist and strive daily to see the world through a positive lens. I'm not high maintenance, nor do I have a problem getting my hands dirty when I need to.
I'm competitive, fiery and spontaneous.But Im also caring, compassionate, and genuine. Im pretty funny ( I have my moments) and readily clumsy. Im also romantic, playful, loving, sweet, ambitious, curious, understanding, faithful/loyal, confident, and the list goes on...
I prefer to NOT casually date anymore.
Im looking to be in a committed, monogamous relationship. I'm looking for the ONE who understands, is patient and is more than willing to build an EXTRAORDINARY and BEAUTIFUL relationship with me from the ground up.
I'm looking for 'The Man of my dreams.'. He's my soulmate, he will always magnify my better half. This man will be many things I look for in a best friend, a boyfriend, and one day... hopefully, will end up being my husband. I am meant to be married once in my life, no previous marriages or children. And of course, the father of my gorgeous kids!
If your NOT serious to build a beautiful and extraordinary relationship from the ground up, DON'T waste your time reading my profile or contacting me. I have a right to be picky because I have ALOT to offer for the right person.
I will not tolerate situations/ issues such as:
1) You secretly haven't moved on from previous relationships or have serious insecurities because you have not been brave enough to really confront, grieve, and face those deep seated emotions.
2) (I've been hearing this one a lot) "I'm afraid of getting hurt again..." (which is inevitable, any type of social exchange that forms into a connection does automatically put you in a vulnerable postion.)Remember not only your taking a risk to be vulnerable, but I will be as well. "True Love requires risk and vulnerability..."
3) Don't EVER talk about your exes on a date, this is obviously an indicator that your still not over that previous relationship and maybe your just not quite ready to move on. ( We can exchange that info. when we're at the right time and place. I want to get to know you, not the name of your ex gf and who she was to you)
4) You've cheated.
5) You lack emotional intelligence. A great Emotional IQ is defined as- capable of acknowledging and managing one's emotions in a heathy matter. The more you take effort to repress such emotions, the more painful and problematic it becomes. (Prefer to not deal with guys whose moods, behaviors, and responses are that of a teenager)
6) If your set on what your looking for and you are ready for a relationship, STICK to your GUNS! The last thing women want to deal with is being invested into a potential relationship but the other party will state, " we'll see where this takes us...", OR will
not clearly specify what they want.
I know what your thinking or what your first impressions are. I do have a fair amount to say, possibly viewed as extremely vocal, bitchy, or maybe its just an onslaught of stipulations... But in all honesty, I know what I want. I hope a man can step up to the plate with confidence before me and will fully take into consideration what I look for as important.
