Hi. When I first got on here I wasn't taking this site very serious. I think over the past few weeks I have gotten to a point where I am more ready to talk to people. I recently got out of a relationship that was very rocky about a month ago, so I am just looking around to meet new people right now. I am always up for making new friends! I do want a relationship but I am not rushing anything. I would like to start out as friends and see if anything develops. And I personally feel that if you can't be friends with someone first and make an effort to get to know them then you are probably not who I want to be with anyways.
I would like to find a GOOD man that I really click with and vice versa. Everyone always asks me what I am looking for in a guy... well I think just about what anyone looks for. I am looking for someone who is honest & trust-worthy. I am also looking for someone fun & funny. I love a man that can make me laugh, but isn't too silly. I also want someone who knows when and how to be serious and that I can have real conversations with. I want to find someone who is understanding & supportive, because just like anyone I have my flaws and problems. I want someone who will stand by me and accept me for me. Someone I have things in common with and can share things with. Such as it would be nice to find someone who likes going to festivals and doing things outdoors because I do. It would also be nice to find someone who likes country music or can at least tolerate it. And of course I want someone sweet and romantic isn't bad, but I know most guys really aren't that 'romantic' anymore. Really all in all I just want a good guy.
I am 31 and yes I know I don't look it. I get that a lot, but people always tell me that's a good thing.
I am a good person, but like anyone I have my problems and right now I am going through some tough times and I hope I can find someone that can be understanding of that and be supportive.
I am currently unemployed, but looking for a job. I do photography in my spare time and I am currently working on trying to get a website up. I also do sell my work, but it doesn't make much money. However I am getting ready to start school for photography, which I am excited about but also nervous. It would be my dream to own my own gallery someday.
One of my struggles that has held me back some is driving. I do not drive much due to anxiety. I can drive. I do have a car and a license and will drive around my part of town. But I do not drive very much. It is something I am working on overcoming, but I want to be upfront with whoever is looking at my profile.
With all that said, I am a GREAT girl but I am human. I want someone that can accept that I am not perfect and not expect me to be. Because I am not one to put up a 'front' and act like something I am not. I am me. Plus I am very honest. :)
I also spend a lot of time at home taking care of the house and spending time with my dogs. I love animals and want to meet someone who also loves animals or at least can accept them. Other then that I spend time on the computer, watching tv/movies, playing my Wii, going to parks, obliviously out taking photos, and hanging out with friends and family. I am pretty laid back.
I love just about all types of music... country, rock, alternative, oldies, some rap. I have a wide range of music. But I would like to find someone who also enjoys country music.
I am looking for people that don't mind talking and taking things slow. But I do want to find someone who actually does want a relationship and to settle down and doesn't just say that when really they are just looking for a girl to hang with at the bars and party with.