I joined this site to hopefully meet men who are in a similar situation as me. I'm giving this a try. If per chance I meet someone special that I wouldn't have met otherwise, then it will be worth it. The truth is that I haven't been married yet because I haven't met the right person, and I just can't settle. Honestly, no regrets in ending any of my past relationships.
If I had to describe myself in a few words.... genuine, honest, loyal, easy-going, fun, and compassionate. People trust me and feel comfortable around me, which makes me happy. My career is rewarding to me; I feel fortunate to be in a position to help the kids. That doesn't mean I can't wait to leave on Friday:)
I value honesty and loyalty in all my relationships, always have. It's not an effort, just who I am. I have great difficulty dealing with dishonesty, whether it be a boyfriend, friend, any person in my life. I can laugh at myself; a sense of humor is so imporant. Life is too short not to have fun and laugh things off! Love to travel. Weekend getaways are great too, big cities or just a quaint B&B. Also love down time - weekends at home w/ movies.
I'm independent, secure w/ myself, & emotionally balanced. If there is one thing I have learned, it is that if both people in the relationship are not relatively secure, self-confident and emotionally balanced, it doesn't work. We all have issues and insecurities, that is normal, but anything to the extreme is damaging, at least in my experiences.
So, what am I looking for? A great, genuine, secure, fun guy who wants to enjoy life; go out, stay in, travel, spend time with our friends and family - alone and together, just to respect each other in every way, just a nice healthy balance.