My name is Lissette. I'm often referred to as a 'cool chick', easy to get along with, good conversationalist. I want to be able to have something to do once in a while. I want to meet people but am not looking too far into the future. I follow the flow. No stress. Don't really have a goal in mind.
This was a fun social experiment and gift from a friend. I learned a lot but I still don't really get it. Profiles really don't give you much of a persons true self. This kind of thing forces you to prejudge and create a list describing the perfect mate. The thing with that is that most of the things that make us the happiest are things we never even knew we wanted, the rule breakers. I still don't care for dating much but I did have fun and they were not all the same. I don't like the pretending and sales pitches. I don't like the presentation of a person who really never dresses or acts like that when not trying to impress. That being said, I met a few amazing people here. I am sure I will know them for a very long time regardless if I am to ever be in a relationship or not. That has made this worth it.
(I wrote this before I knew my cxl didn't go thru completely. I am stuck here til May. Makes me wish I didn't delete the old profile stuff)
I decided not to continue my membership for a couple of reasons. 1st - many are looking for a lot more a lot sooner than I am able to give. 2nd - I don't like to hurt people so I try to never put myself in the position where I would have to chose one person over another and this almost promotes that since you are meeting so many people at the same time. There are other reasons but those 2 are enough.
I suppose going off line will make me hard to find. The profile will stay up incase I change my mind later.
I have to add this for the ones that are misinterpreting this... No, this does not mean that I am looking for a hookup. Thanks for offering.
Almost everyone has that one psyho-ex story. I realize that in the relationship/dating field there seem to be more female psycho's then men. That being said, I would like to announce that I had my psycho-ex way back in high school so my quota is filled. If you are or have ever been accused of being psycho, I would suggest that you pass me by. I could not appreciate your raw talents since I have had mine already. Plus, I am well passed the stage of my life where I dramatically overreact to the situations around me and isn't that part of the fun? Your talents would be much better used on the members of this population who have been deprived of your talents don't you think? Trust me, it is what is best for you. With the shortage of male psychos there are literally thousands of women out there waiting for you to come and fulfill their need for at least one psycho-ex. You can't leave them hanging...