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38 year old woman
Houston, Texas, United States

Seeking:
men 30-50
Within:
30 Miles of Houston, Texas, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm looking for a guy who has written a profile that does NOT include:
"I work hard, and play hard" (really? WTF does that even mean??)
"I don't do drama" (feeling the need to add that phrase seems a bit dramatic)
"I can have fun anywhere, anytime" (really? I find that hard to believe)
"I'm at a GREAT place in my life, and I'm SO happy being single" (awesome...so...why are you on here?)
Come on guys! I can only read SO many of these clichés before my mind begins to wander, and I think, "WOW. There must actually be someone out there making a fortune selling a book called 'Really Generic Things to Say About Yourself in an Online Dating Profile so you can Appeal to as many Women as Possible.." Lol! Why would you want to do that?? My goal is not to describe myself in some generic way that I think will attract the greatest number of men possible. On the contrary, I want to be as candid and honest about who I am as I can possibly be, and hopefully, attract that one man I have been looking for...the guy who, after reading everything I have to say, thinks to himself, "Okay, I can see where this chic might not be perfect for everyone, but I'm pretty sure she might be perfect for me". I get that most of us have fallen prey, at some point in our lives, to taking the easy way out, and just say whatever it is we think (or have been told) the opposite sex wants to hear; but what an exhausting waste of time! Can we all agree that nothing is worse than investing time and energy into getting to know someone, really digging them, and then watching in horror as, inevitably, their "true" self slowly ventures out of hiding? That is never a pretty scenario...but, an all too familiar one, that I'd really like to avoid if I can! So, I try to avoid reading profiles filled with "lines", or worn out clichés. I'm looking for authenticity, not perfection, but flawed authenticity. When it comes to this site, I'm 100% honest about who I am, flaws and all, (the few that I have...lol), and just letting the cards fall where they may. I can honestly say, good or bad, that what you see (and/or in this case, read) is what you get.

So here is a little "authentic" snapshot of who I am...

1. I have an 18 year old daughter at UH. She is awesome.
2. I am divorced and "drama free"...lol
3. I use more profanity than the average person.
4. I watch a DISTURBING amount of television.
5. I can get pretty loud when discussing something I'm passionate about.
6. I am very sarcastic.
7. I love animals. Possibly, more than I love humans.
8. I do not believe in God, but have a great respect for the belief systems of others.
9. I LOVE music....I wish my life had a soundtrack.
10. I am crazy competitive....BUT (full disclosure) I'm a sore loser.
11. Politically, I consider myself Libertarian.
12. I hate beer, LOVE wine.
13. I procrastinate.
14. I LOVE movies
15. I am very inquisitive, I ask a lot of questions.
16. Half of me is a fiercely independent "hear me roar" kind of girl, and the other half is very delicate and feminine, appreciates good manners, and men who believe in "old school" chivalry.
17. Finally, unlike so many women I know, I wasn't born with the gene that, apparently, compels a person to take a minimum of 1,000 "selfies" each day, and proceed to send them to every person they know, for no apparent reason. So please don't ask.

If you made it this far, I'm impressed. You clearly have patience. Brevity is obviously not one of my more refined writing skills. Lol. Send my an e-mail if you're interested, I can't wait to hear from you! (But please don't be a p***y and just wink)

P.S. Please don't contact me if you DON'T have: a profile picture, a job, a place to live, a vehicle, live more than an hour away from 77008 (Heights), lied about your age to stay inside specific "search" parameters, or are over the age of 30, but have a "seeking someone" age range that begins at 18. That's just disturbing.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have one cat that lives with me, her name is Big Kitty...I also have 4 babies that don't live with me (I share custody...lol). Two cats, Rumi and Moonpie, and two dogs, a Rhodesian Ridgeback, Puppy, and a Black Lab, Laila - All Rescues : )

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Pisces
College:
University of Houston, Houston, TX
For fun:

I will try almost anything once....

Favorite hot spots:

I live in the Heights, so there are more than a few places I love here in the area...but I don't know that I would describe any of them as "hot spots"...lol...

Favorite things:

Comfy jeans, animal kisses, laughing, clean cars, movies, books, conversation, any form of art that impacts me in some way, good first kisses, feeling understood and protected, soft sheets, down comforters, good food...and really good wine

Last read:

I think I could live in half price books! I am constantly reading (and I teach reading for a living), so keeping this "last read" portion of my profile current is a chore I just don't want to take to take on...forgive me...

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'3" (160cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'11" (210cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

I'm a licensed therapist, but after 8 years of working in mental health, and not feeling like I was making the impact I wanted to (especially with adolescents), I decided to transition to education. I now teach 7th grade Reading, and I love it.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Atheist
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

I have a Bachelors degree in Psychology (minor in Sociology), and a Masters degree in Social Work

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