Okay, so what is in a profile that makes someone what to know more about you? I have sat down and wrote my profile twice, and I am still not satisfied with it, because I have a really hard time trying to fit so much stuff in a tiny little paragraph while trying to be witty, funny and not boring. But I think I have come up with enough thought here so here it goes.
I thought I would answer a few questions that I always get asked so maybe that would help someone reading my profile to know me a little better and if they would be interested in me.
Yes, the photo’s are current. Yes, I am divorced and it has been 6 years since I was married. So, no I am not going through that hardship. Yes, I do like kids, my son, however is grown and no longer lives with me. Yes, I do like other people kids, but, not if they are intentionally mean and not willing to let a new person into their lives after Dad gets to know me and see’s that I am a normal person. No, I do not wish to have anymore children. I would adopt a child.
No, I don’t smoke. No, I don’t gamble. No, I don’t do drugs. Yes, I have a clean house. (Yes, I have been asked that.)
Yes, I love animals, but allergic to cats. I have 2 dogs. Yes, I cook. Yes, I love to just hang out sometimes, and just relax, I don’t require going to dinner all the time. A romantic dinner thrown in there is certainly nice and well appreciated.
Okay, so now that I am done with the dry boring information I would like to add, I love humor. I love life. I love smiling. I need to be with other healthy positive people like myself. I’m looking to walk down the path of life next to a great man who has a great heart who wishes to have a caring, kind ,sharing, and totally amazing relationship with a women who wants to be with him as much as he wants to be with her.
Need to add more. I have lived on a farm in MN for the past 17 years. I work in the field of engineering and training. I would love to find a great guy that is open and able to do things like hike, dinner, just enjoy some free time. I find that people here are so busy, even if there is a spark between you, time plays such an important factor. I work from 6 am to late sometimes. I travel every other week or so. I live over off of the 215 and windmill. I mention all these things because I have gone on a few dates were I think the guy was not satisfied that he could not see me anytime he wanted, or wanted to see me when I was just getting off work. Or I lived on the wrong side of town from him. I think that when you date you may have to make some compromise. I think that when you are mature and are truly looking for a partner there has to be a compatibility factor. Living in the country and being used to riding four wheeler, horses, snow mobiles has been my fun for a long time. Being able to go to the neighbors for pit fires and BBQ's may seem pretty lame to some people. But its how I have lived for the last 20 years and I am very happy with it. I also do not use a gym. Instead I live a healthy and happy life style that keeps me in very good shape. I believe you are how you live. I would love to find a man who loves me for all these things. Last but certainly not least, and I am being very honest here, if you are a high maintenance guy, I probably would not hang in there. High maintenance guys seem to suck the life out of me. I do very well with a calm, quieter type, more country than city type of man. :) thanks for reading.