So I think I'll start off by telling you "I want a girl with extensions in her hair Bamboo earrings, at least two pair, a Fendi bag and a bad attitude that's all I need to get me in a good mood. She can walk with her switch and talk with street slang I love when I woman ain't afraid to do her thang." Of course I'm joking, but if you remember this song you get 2 bonus points...LOL
Seriously, I'm looking for a girl with a good heart, loves to laugh, and is just an all around nice and caring person. I want someone who can love forgive, even when it's hard. A woman that loves God, is still real and down to earth, and not super religious where she acts all perfect, like she doesn't still make mistakes or have issues. I think women that strive to be good communicators are sexy and very rare! I melt for good listeners and women that are just sweet, not just to me, but period. I just don't flow well with overly strong, overly authoritative, hard bossy women, but they're are plenty of men out there that do:) I want to fall in love with a woman who is my best friend and whom I can trust with my heart. I want a woman that is ready for love (no India Arie pun intended) I would love to be with a woman that has had to overcome some kind of struggle or obstacle in her life or past. Diamonds are made out of intense heat and pressure.
I don't share with many people why I decided to join Match.com, but the reason is, When I'm alone in my room sometimes I stare at the wall and in the back of my mind I hear my conscience call, telling me I need a girl who's as sweet as a dove
for the first time in my life I see....I need love...LOL, I'm not even a huge LLCoolJ fan, but I just couldn't resist sliding that in there.
Hmmmm now about me.... Well in case you haven't noticed i am Black (plez tell me u didnt look up at my picture again...like dang he is".....lol). So yea I'm black but your boy is not gangster or hood. I tried to be tough once after watching Boyz N Da Hood but the whole thing just failed....terribly, and I think my dad gave me a spanking after he found out:( however, I do have a lil dip when I walk and I can Dougie which has to count for something:) Other then that I'm just a nerdy, corny, kind of hip educated dude. I fell in love with Jazz in college and have been dating her ever since. I cheat on her sometimes with hip hop, but who doesn't! Truth is the only foreign language I speak and poetry moves me like the movie Notebook and Love Jones. And speaking of Notebook I cried at the end, but if you ever bring it up I'll deny it. I also cried during a scene in the recent movie "Warrior" but those were man tears. There's a difference, but I'll deny that to, "guy code." Also, I love to sing, I just suck at it so until I get good the shower remains my permanent stage. Also, I love my mom and dad very much. They're still together and it stirs my heart deeply when I talk about how much they have been there for me and loved me through life's adversities.
And lastly, I think God is dope! I'm into Jesus, God, the Bible, the whole package nine yards. I also do youth related ministry and love it!.Now I'm not perfect and mess up a lot, but I'm far worse with God in my life. I would love to find a woman who is super cool to kick it with and loves God as well, but they're rare:( Besides that, I'm just your typical brutha, hoping that my soul mate didn't die at birth or marry one of the child stars from Different Strokes. Actually I think everything I've gone through in life has partly been in preparing me for her. So when she comes I'll know how to love her right.
If you want to know more about me feel free to hit me up. I promise you there's a lot more to me then movies that made me cry and random LL Cool J quotes:
and Yes I did use a quote from the movie Dirty Dancing....I love that movie...but I will deny it if you mention it around other men LOL