You will have to see about me to judge for sure. However, gotta write something...and write I will...
My tag was "What's so funny about peace, love and understanding?" Great Elvis Costello song that I love, but I got to thinking. I am a guy that takes his humor seriously (paradoxically of course) and one of the subjects that is dead serious is the existence and celebration of peace, love and understanding. Those that scoff and get caught up in the moment and want to be a flash in the pan (or a sparkle maybe??) are ones that do make light of noble virtues such as the triad I just pointed out. Isn't that what we are on here for? Some connection serenety, and celebration of unity and uniqueness at the same time? Is that a fairy tale? I don't think so. I think just the right chemistry, at just the right time and place can be explosive and can dial back reality lightning fast and bring the calm of a "real connection" with the three in tact. When it happens and we know it, I am thinking awe, I am thinking reverence, I am hoping for a deep seated love that will grow from a foundation of the three.
Sure, I can guarantee I am one of the most funny, intelligent, and good looking guy around all day long and all night too; but seeing, hearing and experiencing is essential. I am really funny-that is subjective so I will leave that up to you and our chemistry. I am intelligent-I have a great job about to embark on another season in my vocational life filled with accolades, I am an outstanding scholar because that is how I got my job with the government, under the Outstanding Scholar hiring authority in 2004. I am in a national publication for my collegiate results and came a hair shy of Summa because my mom died in finals week in my senior year and affected a final. I am good looking because a few employers paid me for my looks-I modeled and was a (straight) flight attendant. that is pretty objective and I can prove it. Most importantly, you will probably think so I am hoping.
So my job here is to sell you on my observation about what I take seriously in a relaitonship (peace love and understanding-nothing funny about it), but at the same time everything else I make fun of and have a good time. I am serious about my humor, and irreverent about myself. I am self deprecating and not arrogant. I am not condescending and am kind to most all individuals in life. I am hip to you reap what you sow and the Karma bus is coming with goodies for me because I treat people well. I am not so nice to those that take advantage of me and am fast to stand up for myself and more importantly defend those I love. I AM A RARE DUDE INDEED-just in case you were wondering. I have much to give. I will pamper, spoil and invest time to build a sustainable relationship many will envy. I realize that takes work and my hat is in the ring with the assurance that if you are serious, then I guarantee you I will work on us hard if we agree its worthwhile. I am sensual, romantic and passionate at the right time and place and promise you I am not at all anything like a 48 year old male, excepting life experience and professional endeavor.
You should be nice. That is my bottom line. I had 14 years of mean and won't stand a second more. ...just be nice...k? Beyond that, I don't text/phone forever and not meet...I like a call or two and see what happens in person. Someone that is affectionate is a must, the cold fish can stay in the freezer for another eskimo. I love to kiss and am very good at it the rest even better...at the right time, again. The same temperament explosive chemistry will catch me. We don't have to kiss on first or second date but I am not in this for a platonic coffeethon either. I would love to cook with you, be outdoors, workout, be healthy, explore, take in a museum, do something on the edge (I am kind of an on-the-edgy type of guy that tries things)..
OK, max characters...I dare you to have a good time, h