Humor is important to me, but for this interview, I will TRY to take this serious. I am a divorced 41 y/o male, no kids (yet), born in Colombia but have lived in So Cal since I was three (Colombia is in South America, not Mexico-I’d like to travel with you, so please know a little about geography :) I’m 6' tall (on a bad hair day I’m 5’ 12” :) in good physical shape at 190 lbs, but not a gym freak and don’t watch much sports on TV. I don't play golf, which I hope is a good thing... I am a family oriented man and also want someone with similar values, who is also "grown-up", but knows when it's time to play... If you're "it", I will be showing my family and friends how proud I am to have you in my life. I enjoy doing just about anything, with friends and family, or with just you alone. If you always need to be partying and drinking, I am not for you. I don't do drugs or smoke, and never have. I enjoy long dinners and not care where the time went, traveling, photography, laughter, museums, movies, sleeping in (preferable not alone) and most things everyone enjoys, except I really appreciate the company more than anything. Everything is much more enjoyable with the right person by your side. Physical attraction is temporary if there is no chemistry... I enjoy fixing things and very handy around the house, but I’ve had good women in my life (especially mom) who have taught me to NOT “fix everything”. Sometimes all YOU want to do is vent...I enjoy bargain shopping, antiques, fixing up the house (especially for gatherings of our friends/family), cleaning (thanks again mom), washing dishes, cooking (but if it’s too fancy, I’ll assist). I only ask for honesty and integrity, not just in the relationship, but also on this internet site first. No need to hide behind the computer. I may like your flaws, and you may like mine. I don't sit in front of the TV, unless it's to snuggle up to your soft curves in front of me... hopefully we never finish watching the movie...Some descriptive traits that I desire in my partner are: CHEMISTRY, COMPATIBLE, COMMUNICATIVE, COMPROMISE, COMPASSIONATE, CONSIDERATE, COMMITTED, CONFIDENT, CONVERSATIONAL, CURIOUS, COMPLIMENTARY and last but not least, CISSABLE :)... I, as a male; and you, as a female, have our place and desires in a relationship... Me, Tarzan; You, Jane... :) If we RESPECT each other with HONESTY and INTEGRITY, we will always get along... A physical attraction is obviously important, but having the right chemistry and passion for each other is more long lasting... Someone who has a desire to always learn what life has to offer, without needing to learn everything in school or from her peers... Being divorced doesn't mean there's something wrong with me, just as I wouldn't assume there is with you, even if you've never been married. I prefer someone who has had other long-term relationships in the past (married or not)... I am multi-lingual, so I value good communication and other cultures, foods, life styles, dress, travel and learning about just you... Wanting to give to the community and/or volunteer work is something I would like in common. If you don't now, we could do it together. It brings endless amounts of rewards and lessons in life. "Keep the scars on the outside..." You'll have to contact me to find out what this means to me... It is my life.