I think this is a great way to meet more people for socializing and the potential for dating. That's the way I look at it. I've been in SF for many years and still enjoy it very much. I'm a very thoughtful person. For example, I find it interesting trying to decipher people's user names on here. (ha that's not really the best example) I definitely have a need to balance work with fun - I'm busy with work and a couple side projects, but I don't let that get in the way of fun and personal time. It would be great to meet someone that I laugh and flirt with.