I am fit, attractive, ambitious and hard working... I know what I want and know how to do what i do and do it well. But to grow and have a mature relationship with a smart, sexy, secure woman who is nothing like me would be the most beneficial thing I could do to make me happy. A woman that is a challenge but not impossible. Someone who makes me think about my self-directed and somewhat narrowly focused methods, considering how I might be able to be a better person, therefore happier.