I am adventurous and fun loving. I have a deep sense of self and I am always looking for ways to fill my life with light hearted and positive things. It is important for me to always grow and learn from each experience. I have taken time for myself to breath easy, reflect, and appreciate the truly important things in life.
Now is as good a time as any to share a few thoughts about my point of view on relationships. Guys tend to ask 'why are you single?'. I really want to aswer by saying because of guys like you. Guys that see a great NORMAL independent WOMAN and they do not know what to do with her. I have seen many realtionships in my lifetime that start off by two people being attracted to the drama that one brings in to others life. And I see beautiful men and women remaining in relationships just because they are affraid to be alone. You have to be comfortable with yourself, have friends and family to get you through it all. Some may like a messy life, I on the other hand have no interest in crazyness. A relationship should be fun and you should feel secure and safe. This will be the point when you say 'well no relationship is perfect.' Fair enough.
I know there is a great love ready for me, just as I am ready for it. I think 'looking' for someone has not been my way of going about relationships. There are particular aspects of a persons personality that can be hard to pin point. Just having a great conversation, a cool vibe, and bringing your own unique life experience should get us half way. But in general is just an initial pleasant experience and knowing that the person is good to the core. No matter how sarcastic, playful, or even serious you may be. There can always be some attraction that is palpable beyond the superficial. Is all in the chemestry. Submitted from mobile
