I consider myself a real laid back person, pretty cool and fun to be around. Most would say that I am friendly and easy to get along with. I try to keep a positive outlook and make the best of every situation. I can have fun in just about any setting if I am with the right company. I enjoy the outdoors as much as a night in with a good movie or something. Any old music would do, as long as it has a good beat to it and decent lyrics - don't want to listen to ignorance. I'm a typical guy but with a big heart and I'm just looking for someone to entrust it with.
I was born and raised in Belize, Central America and yes I do have an accent -similar to a Jamaican one but very hard to detect. I've been living in the US since age 20 but have been visiting since I was 8 - first in Los Angeles and then New York. This would explain my urban style ("when in Rome.."), but please don't mistake me for some ignorant thug with no class. I'm civilized; cultured; educated; well-rounded; family orientated; Christian raised and military trained.
I think the hardest thing to do is win a woman's heart. I wish there was a quick an easy way; then again, if there were then it would loose its value. So I guess I'm stuck with this dreadfully drawn out process. Now don't get me wrong I enjoy it and willingly peruse; it's just that some females throw in unnecessary obstacles. I feel some of the drama and loops can be eliminated so the focus can actually be about growing together rather than playing cat and mouse with these mind games. I dream of the day that I can say to a woman that I find her interesting and would like to invest in that interest and then be counted as sincere. But women have been through a lot so some are scared, some are paranoid, some are bitter and some are vengeful. So where is the woman who is willing and able (emotionally available) to be in a relationship? I'm not a serial dater and let the truth be told, I really don't care for dating. I want to date with a purpose and become something more than friends. I'm a relationship kind of guy and I miss being in one. Don't get me wrong though, I am not defined by my relationship but rather the other way around. I bring my honesty and positive mentality to go along with my 100% commitment and dedication. I think I trust to easily and love too quick or is it the other way around. Either way, I know what I want and I can't wait to have it. So if I message you that means I have every intent on following through with what I just said. I do use "winks" to see if you wink back or at least check out my profile.
And I don't care about your faults, I'm not perfect either. I'm looking for someone who's going to love me and help me carry my baggage too. I want someone who's going to love me when I don't feel like doing anything or even get out of bed; when my jokes aren't that funny; when I'm all stinky from the gym; when I forget to bring home milk; when I'm miserable from a bad day at work; when I don't agree with you on something; when I'm looking all crappy from yard work or whatever. I need someone I can trust; not only to not cheat on me but represent me in my absence. Just someone to permanently take me out of this dating game so again, if I message you, then I'm having wishful thoughts than you can and will and I'm counting on you to work with me towards that goal!!
Oh and I'm more attracted to women of different ethnicities and cultures (Hispanic, White, Middle Eastern...). I guess maybe because I'm mixed, I want my kids to be mixed too, lol.