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44 year old man
Woodland Hills, California, United States

Seeking:
women 30-45
Within:
40 Miles of Woodland Hills, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

...and I have low mileage! Hello ladies! You may know me from such dating sites as OK Cupid. That has been a mixed experience for me, but since I am an eternal optimist and have been told "you get what you pay for" I decided to try my luck on Match. Worst case scenario, I have some funny stories to tell my married friends. Actually I suppose that's far from the worst case scenario.

I spent most of my 20s and 30s raising my daughter, more often than not by myself. She is now 21, oh-so-close to graduating UCSD, and (as far as I know) not stripping so I'm going to say I succeeded as a parent. I am now a young 43 years old and, while enjoying some me-time, have realized I would very much like to be back in a romantic relationship. I have never been accused of having "game" and have dated only sporadically the past ten years so if you're looking for a smooth operator I may not be your man. Having said that, I'm not exactly the "40 Year Old Virgin" either (although I do love that movie), and I have a lot of energy and enthusiasm that I am excited to invest in a relationship with the right woman.

I am (according to my friends and women I met on Cupid) witty, charming, and sweet. I have always been in decent shape but right now am probably in the best shape of my life. I generally find people and their life experiences fascinating and as such I am an excellent, attentive listener. I have no interest in trying to recapture what I missed out on in my 20s, but I wouldn't mind getting back some of what I may have missed in my 30s, and love going out to new restaurants and bars, social events, live music, etc. In fact I'm open to pretty much anything, and if you have activities you enjoy that you want to introduce me to I'm all for it!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I am between dogs at the moment.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Virgo
College:
University of California, Santa Barbara, Santa Barbara, CA
For fun:

Love the beach in general, enjoy surfing and although I'm not good at it I am determined to get better before I die. Or at least until I die. I suppose fitness has become a hobby: Crossfit, 5 or 10K mud runs and obstacle courses.

Favorite hot spots:

The beach! Mozza. Arclight. Library Bar. Lukshon. I literally have a Yelp list of over 100 bars and/or restaurants I want to try. Let's get started!

Favorite things:

Movies - love them. New and classic, blockbuster and independent or foreign, I have a fairly wide taste in films. TV: Breaking Bad, Justified, Game of Thrones at the top. A few others. Music: modern and classic hip hop, classic rock and metal.

Last read:

Love in the Time of Algorithms - history and analysis of online dating. Also Gone Girl, Central Park Five, The Twelve.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

I have been at my job for 19 years. It's not sexy but I'm good at it and, on a good day, am able to actually help people who need it.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

50% Italian in genes, 100% Italian in spirit.

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
No preference

Lapsed Catholic. And by "lapsed" I mean non-practicing. At all. But that stubborn belief in Jesus/God that was drilled into me for 15 years does not go away easily.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

UC Santa Barbara

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