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41 year old man
Honolulu, Hawaii, United States

Seeking:
women 26-42
Within:
50 Miles of Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I have a strong passion for God, family, and my job. I stay active, balance all areas of my life, and have fun in everything I do. I have traveled around the world, but I love Hawaii the most. I hope this site helps me meet people I normally wouldn't come across in my daily routine and circle of friends.

I completely understand the probability of someone reading this and being my lifetime "match" is extremely low due to all the intangible factors created by you and I. However, knowing that I COULD meet my "match" only a few keystrokes away is tempting enough to try, and if nothing else, learn more about myself and others.

What I have learned so far is that everyone has a unique perspective on this site, or dating in general. I've been asked how to find the "right one" on this site since their are so many prospects. If I knew, I'd probably NOT still be on this site...or maybe I am still expecting the right one to come along anytime now. Nonetheless, I think I've discovered some helpful tips (in no particular order) for those who want to reduce time, energy, and resources in their search for their potential match:

1) Do they have a vision for their future?
2) Are they financially responsible?
3) Are they good communicators?
4) Are they still carrying old relationship baggage?
5) Are they spiritually and emotionally strong?

Some may take this the wrong way and disagree, but ultimately its about searching for the "right" person for a long-term, serious relationship. Not everyone is looking for a serious relationship, which is fine as long as they are completely honest to those who are searching. A co-worker recommended not to take the site too serious, but when dealing with the heart, some people should and are taking it serious. I am always thankful and happy wherever I'm at in life. Whether I was single, married, or now divorced, I was always grateful for what I had and enjoyed life to the fullest.

In looking forward, honesty and openness are two important qualities I look for in a developing relationship. Honesty leads to mutual trust and openness allows two-way communication to share thoughts, feelings, and life's experiences.

People who don't really know me, might think I'm quiet and reserve, but in reality, I can be completely open and spontaneous. It all depends on the situation and who I am with. The more I trust you, the more you'll know me. I've got nothing to hide and a lot to share.

Before my time is up, I hope to meet someone special and build a friendship that forms the foundation to a strong relationship. I wish everyone the best of luck in finding their heart's desires: peace, love, and happiness.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I like to golf or hike on the weekends whenever I have time. I love watching and playing all sports.

Favorite hot spots:

My favorite places besides Hawaii are Las Vegas, San Antonio, Florida, and Boston. I love to travel anywhere in Asia.

Favorite things:

My favorite TV shows are The Office, King of Queens, Seinfeld, Friends. I appreciate all music.

Last read:

The Bible

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Christian / Other
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Non-Denominational Christian

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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