I am a 38-year-old girl, who is basically looking for the love of my life, and I know he is out there. I am sweet, sensitive, caring, generous, smart, and funny. I can be the life of the party but also love to stay home and just hang out. I have a 10-year-old son, who is precious to me - the best thing that has ever happened to me. That said, something is missing...I would love to find a guy who would be attentive and protective - but not smothering...and I would hope that he would be interested in what I think and feel, as well. That is not to say that I am not independent, intelligent, and opinionated (lol) too...just looking for that special someone who knows how to be assertive, confident, positive, and courageous - someone who is not afraid to say what he thinks or stand up for what he believes in - but who is also gentle, romantic, kind, and thoughtful. I want to feel butterflies when he walks into the room, and I want to feel like something is missing when he leaves. I want to be the only one who can make him smile just by thinking about me. I want to still be holding his hand when we are 70 or 80 years old. But like my headline says, chemistry is probably the most important element - if it's not there, nothing else is either, except maybe friendship...so if you think you might be the guy for me, please let me know!