So here I am again on Match.com. Ive been here before. Through the times I’ve meet some amazing women that I would still consider friends and really have changed my life for the better. But there is one piece missing in my life that still eludes me.
In one sense, I am the boy next door: A bit of an old-fashioned type of guy. Laid back, pretty easy going, and optimistic. I enjoy the simple things in life and steer clear of drama as much as possible. It really takes a lot to faze me. At moments I will amaze myself and believe I am with out a doubt the coolest person in the world. Then moments later do something incredibly geeky such as liberating song lyrics from 80s songs to sound witty. “Don’t stop believing. Hold on…to that feeling.”
At first impression, people have told me that I seemed shy or even not that personable. But they eventually find that I am never one take myself too seriously whether I’m caught at a stoplight singing in the car or laughing out loud at work listening to Preston and Steve. I’m a generally happy guy where I am in my life right now. Just wish I had that person to share it with.
I am very passionate about my likes. I'm a fiercely loyal friend, and will do anything for those I care about even if it means putting others needs before mine. I like to be the reliable one that can be called on no matter what comes down the line. But I still can cut it lose with the best of them and be the life of the party.
Yes, that says I live in Delaware. Over the past few years I have grown to love Philly and the surrounding areas and try to get up there as much as possible. One of my goals is to move up around that area as soon as certain stars align. It won’t be tomorrow, but it maybe sooner rather than later.
I'm looking for woman who knows what she wants from life and has the ambition and drive to get it. Ambition does not mean at work 80 hours a week and have it on your mind the rest. You work to live, not the other way around. You take pride in being honest and good-hearted. I’m looking for someone who can also find enjoyment in the little things in life. You have an inner spark that can light up my world when entering the room. You will pull me out to a club when you are in the mood and settle in for a quiet night with wine at home when that’s what I want to do. I’m a sucker for pretty smile and have a weakness for fashionable women, who sparkly and shine. And believe it or not I actually enjoy doing the "couple" shopping trips.
In closing, I am looking for a relationship, but this site to me is more about meeting people of the same mindset, getting to know one another and just seeing where it leads. My life Ive always been looking for my better half and in process has lead to be be "that single guy" about 90% of the time. And with that, Ive developed a comfort level. So if Im going to find someone, she is going to have to understand that Im going to make mistakes cause I never got the relationship handbook. She is going to have to be patient, and also willing to work with me and meet me half way. I know enough about me to know Im not an easy catch. But I like to think Im a good one. So if you are interested, and what Ive described sounds you, Id love to hear from you.