I'm outgoing, fun, spontaneous, smart and nice. I moved here with 1 suitcase not knowing anyone 4 years ago -- that risk was definitely worth it, and I love it here.
I love great conversations, and I'm a people person. I care about people's feelings, and I have a lot of sides to my personality.
Looking for a great guy, but not looking for a fling. I love all things NY (brunch, drinks, you know the deal), but lately I'm drawn towards meaningful things and experiences that make you feel alive. Anyway, I'm pretty energetic, and in general, I prefer to go out more, but if the company is good, I definitely don't mind staying in (movies and books can be fun). I also like random things like ice skating badly, or salsa dancing. I have a lot of hobbies, but at any given time I focus on only a few of them: art, writing, dancing, soccer, etc.
I want a guy who is honest, caring, smart, thoughtful, is an independent person (and thinker), who is good at handling tough situations, and is willing to try new things and adventures. Integrity is a surprisingly rare quality these days, and it's something I really value. It takes strength to have integrity.
And overly structured people who schedule a re-organization of their sock drawer make me sad. So please be more fun than that :) I really love NYC and want to stay here. I value someone who can discuss problems calmly and enjoys continual self-improvement -- it's just more fun that way and freedom to grow is important.
As for my career, I love personal development, entrepreneurship and get excited about people's potential and possibilities -- which is why I'm a Life Coach :) In a nutshell, it's about getting what you want faster.
A lot of people ask me how it works and I get sort of tired of explaining it...so I'll just explain that quickly here...it's a process that helps people get faster results for career/business or relationships for ambitious people like CEOs, entrepreneurs, actors, financial traders etc. I don't give advice, but rather, I draw the answers out of people. I get to inspire people and love it! :) I also tend to have constant business ideas, but I'm more of an idea person, so I'm always looking for people who like to actually do the ideas.
My ideal relationship is comfortable, supportive and just really compatible, where you can have fun doing nothing at all together, as well as random fun things. I think honesty is important, and I like having a deep connection with someone where you understand each other (or are willing to discuss preferences/opinions/feelings) with a lot of loyalty and trust that's always there.
I did get married in Vegas once, which was a mistake I've learned from.
I'm also into personality types! It's one of my favorite things to read about. If you've taken the Myers-Briggs, please let me know what type you got! I'm an ENFP.