I am a laid back guy looking to eventually find that "one" to be with for the rest of my life. I want to meet someone as friends first and build on that. I realize it takes time to build a relationship and have to have that friends base first before you get into any bigger and better. I have come to match.com because I have a hard time meeting anyone as I tend to work a lot and when I do go out, I don't want to pick a lady up in a bar. Just the wrong environment to get to know someone. Persistence pays off and I decided to try this route to see what becomes of it. I am looking for someone that would be just as happy hanging out on the couch in front of a good movie as going out and lighting up the town and being crazy. I am attracted to a wide variety of ladies...... seems the only ones that I however stay with are ones that can keep my attention and have commonalities that we build on as friends. Looking for the standard things that most guys want..... humor, charisma, intelligence, beauty, dedication to the things that she loves in life, and understanding to all of life's obstacles that a couple may encounter. If this seems like you, look me up. Can't hurt, can it?