now a days im laid back,like to b care free,but im notI just lost 70lbs. and i dont want to put it back on.so i could care less if u now how to cook.LOL. I also like to kid around alot,could be a problem if u cant laugh at your self. i am quiet until i no u. I m lookin 4 some 1 to enjoy doing anything 2gether and dont have drinking problems or issues.i went through it twice,not again. I work out at the gym and like to ride bike trails.