If you are...
Attractive without being more concerned than a good man should be about it
Funny according to others besides yourself and your mother
Able to maintain close relationships with friends old and new
Respected by others
Aware of yourself- your needs and desires, and can articulate them with ease
Not afraid of a woman with her own interests and opinions
Historically faithful in your romantic relationships
Able to grow where you are planted
Have your own friends and your own life
Ready for a meaningful relationship
...then I'd love to hear from you.
Bonus points if you are sort of quiet without being socially awkward.