hi! hmm where to start, I don't look at my winks! So please just email me if you want to reach me. Also, I'm not really interested in a pen pal and I doubt you are either...so if you think you have to email me and ask me 103 questions before you ask me out, you don't, I need someone that can keep it simple :-D. I travel frequently with my job. I'm constantly meeting new people but this opens up new doors for me and i enjoy it. Friendship is great, if it turns into more, great. I enjoy being in a relationship as long as it enhances my life rather than limiting it. I love going out to eat, watching sports, drinking wine, traveling, reading, biking, meeting people, all the usual stuff. I'm looking for someone who can challenge me but most importantly just looking for someone laid back and chill. I don't like drama, and fake things scare me. I like when my boyfriend is my best friend. I don't want you to put me on a pedestal and I need to be put in my place once in a while! I need someone who knows what they want I'm confused enough without adding more confusion ;). I'm not clingy or needy so if you are insecure keep it moving because I don't enjoy controlling relationships ;)... and on that note, no I haven't had any "bad experiences" with guys, all experiences are good.