The profile may seem direct but I am tender as a lamb once you get to know me.
A little about me... First I'll say I'm "GROWN and ROMANTIC". I am intelligent, outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous and very forthright. I will not hurt your feelings because I don't want to be hurt. Since End my 5years marriage, I am looking for a friend/lover to share events, trips and quiet evenings with. I have one Son. I live alone and own my home. I am a professional and have been for some time. It does not define me, it's a means to an end. Please respond with a picture profile only. No pic, no time. As far as one-clicks are concerned, they are a nice WINK but if you do not have a picture or/and a full profile with completed sections, the chance is very low that you'll get anything but a "thank you" in return.
What am I looking for in a partner?
I am hungry for the company of a real woman. I crave a thinker, a gentle woman, someone who can capture me with a look, someone who enjoys the better things in life. I want an assertive woman. Make me laugh, that goes a long way. I like to be touched in a sensual way. I think ears are sexy. Hopefully after reading this you feel compelled to contact me because you are who you say you are and you are looking for a man of quality like me. I see my perfect mate as being GOD fearing, strong, tender, cute, successful, sensual, aggressive and intelligent with a sharp intellect. She is the kind that will outwit a competitor but stop and help an injured animal if possible. She must love to travel to exotic places and love to surprise me with small and funny tokens of affection. She is well groomed and always puts her best foot forward to make the best first impression. She will protect me in every sense of the word and allow me to be the "weaker vessel" by making sound decisions for our future.
I'd just like to add...
I love to go new places whether it is free or costs. I do expect a 4 star hotel at a minimum. I love to be pampered and make sure I never miss my 2 hour bi-weekly massage. These are things I do for myself so if you are considering me why would you want to change me? I am independent so please be so. I love jazz, NeoSoul, R & B and will try anything once. My reading and listening tastes are varied but constant. I am looking for someone to be the ying to my yang and be themselves. You get no points for being a great actress because when all is said and done the act only lasts for so long. I won't change you because if you are not the one, I'll keep it moving but wish you the best. I just want someone to make me feel like a desirable man worth romancing.
Before you contact me, please ask yourself the following questions:
1. What's "common sense"?
2. What is your five year plan?
3. What is your "life dream"?
4. What is the most significant change you feel you are able to make in your life today to move you forward toward your dream?
I have very little tolerance for head games. I'm too old for recess. I am serious about finding my match and moving into the best part of my life. If you are on this site for "fun" or "recreation" just know I am not the one. I will not involve myself if someone else calls you "boo". Don't care how "complicated" it is. Not into sharing. If there is a mutual attraction, hopefully you are prepared to focus and see where it can go. I don't ask for anything I'm not prepared to give.
Just know that the most important part of this journey is to find the right fit. That includes putting ALL the cards on the table so if there is something you can't seem to talk about or if you are looking for "a place to chill" we're probably not gonna get there. In today's economy, everyone is being impacted but let's be real about it. I am HIV-negative, tested regularly and I require the same.