Update June 2012
I decided to take a break from Match for a while. I guess I just haven't found the right one yet, but I may be back at some point. I can't respond to your emails, but you can try Y!
Update January 2012
I have been on here now for a little bit and have noticed very few woman respond to emails? Not sure why? Take some time to get to know the people that find you interesting. You never know what could happen. I found this quote and I think it sums up this perfectly.
"I learned a long time ago not to judge people by by what they look like, sound like, or by the clothes they wear. Just because a house is nice and shiny out front, doesn't mean it's not rotting on the inside."
I love analogies and I guess I just want a person that if I let inside my house, they think it's the perfect house, and want to live there forever! I am attracted to all different woman for different reasons, but I really want that beautiful interior more then the shiny exterior.
I believe a relationship needs to start with attraction and build from there, and attraction can only be determined by meeting in person, and getting to know each other.
I have two small children and they are the most important part of my life, and I will always put there needs ahead of mine. If I get involved in a serious relationship, I would like that person to become part of our family, That is important to me.
I am looking for someone who I can laugh with, enjoy life with, who is warm hearted and is willing to get to know me, and appreciate me for who I am.
So try and contact me by typing nole followed by 82(twice) at the y! and lets get dinner or some drinks and see if we are a match.