Such a big question. In other words, I'm not even sure if I want to "join" a dating service. Don't get me wrong, it would be cool to meet someone new and or someone I already know??? I see myself as a very unique, creative, street smart, resourceful, caring, fun loving, and people often say "why are you always smiling"? Life is to short to sit n your s...! I do have my grumpy days, and dislike others that seemed to be superficially happy. This brings me to the topic of confidence. Those who smile and agree to everything drive me LOCO. Iam very confident , and secure with myself and seem to spread the disease of being happy/grateful for who I' am. Kids seem to love me 2... Rambling on here. Not ez to describe myself. Will have to return to elaborate... on both myself and who would be ideal for me. and grammar check as well Ha!