i am looking for a commited relationship. i like a sharp-minded and sharp-witted woman, in particular. someone who has a high degree of curiosity about the world around her, is independent, self-assured, maybe likes to try to fix things herself, can make me laugh, can tease me but still be sweet and sexy and cozy too. smart is very sexy for me. ideally i’d like to meet someone who's somewhat settled in her life in terms of career or job.