Im 46 Born in 1966 i have no idea why it says 47 I promise im not 47 ;)
I've been told I date differently than most guys. I actually hate the concept of dating, I'd much prefer to go out with one person a few times over the course of a couple of weeks rather than go out with multiple people during the same period of time and let the one rise to the top. I promise to never lead someone on, but I do know what I like and generally know in five minutes.
What can I say. Everyone online is basically trying to sell themselves and like products not all live up to their advanced billing. I can only say that what you see is what you get. What you hear in conversation is me, not a sales pitch. I genuinely do not know how to play games. At least the psychological games between two people were never programmed into my DNA.
I only know how to give all of me. To love deeply and to live passionately. When I am in the presence of the one person I want to spend the rest of my life with, I will know it immediately.
I strive for perfection, but know its unachievable. You will never ever have to question my love, respect and overall character. I've never cheated and never will. In me you will find your most passionate lover, your greatest cheerleader, your shoulder to lean on when times are tough, the hug when you need it most and most of all your best friend. That's what I'm capable of giving and would hope to get most if not all in return. I want the true love of my life.
If I had five words to describe myself or if my friends and exes had the challenge, I think the five would be.....
Passionate - I am passionate in everything I do. If you don't live life to its fullest I think something is missing or passing me by.
Intelligent - I think there is a difference between book smarts and street smarts. I think I have a bit of both but consider myself more bright than smart. I try to be able to converse with anyone about any topic they choose. So far in life I have done pretty good in this area.
Loyal - as one friend said of me, if He's is your friend he is your friend for life. I choose my friends carefully and never think of myself as having lots of friends. My friends are like family. I would drop everything and go anywhere in the world at the drop of a hat.
Caring/Compassionate - If you don't have these two qualities, which I count as one, then I truly believe you are a soulless person. I feel for those in need and am willing to help when needed. Kids and older people alike, like me. I can fix most anything and have the tools to back it up.
Cultured - I am inquisitive and nosy, but in a good way. I want to know as much about everything and if I am asking questions it isnt to pry, but to learn and get to know about you or about something I don't yet know.
Genuine - I am adding a sixth. I am who I am take me or leave me. When I look at my report cards from as far back as kindergarten they describe me the same way then as I am today.
I actually like how mom and dad raised me, even if they have no idea all about me. It's ok to be chivalrous and open car doors, doors etc. if you can't deal with someone who cares I am not the person for you. I believe that the little things mean everything and I notice everything along the way. I may run a million miles a second, but life is never a blur.
