This is very hard to say. I guess it basically comes down to that feeling you get when you know you're going to see that person later in the night and you are genuinely excited. I like to be comfortable with the person I'm with and I want her to feel the same way. It's a cliche but when you know, you know.
You should be fun, brave, smart, alluring, enticing, intriguing and up for anything. Love dive bars, nice restaurants, a sunday ball game, road trips, drinks by the sea or staying in with a stack of dvd's and casa bianca pizza.
Don't get me wrong, I'll want to be very attracted to you as well. Also, big points if you know who won the French / Indian War without Googling it.
I'm a big fan of honesty and integrity and assume you are too.
I was advised that I wrote a great deal about what I'm looking for and not a lot about me... so here goes, I'm very close with my family and friends and my core group of friends take several trips each year as we are spread out all over the country.
I love to run, paint and draw. I enjoy everything at LACMA and the Getty gets better each fall. I love going to Palm Springs to write for a weekend and Notre Dame football and Chicago Cub baseball are passions of mine.
Did I mention ND football!. 2012 has brought an amazing run and an undefeated season and the victory over USC left me in a state of euphoria.
I'm getting into modern architecture more and more and I like exploring all of the different finds this city and the world have to offer. My little garden gets lots of attention too.
There, enough about me, what do you think about me, just kidding....
I've never wanted to settle as I see so many people in miserable relationships, so finding the right person is key.
If you're curious, drop me a note and let's see what happens.