I like to think of myself as a fun-loving, intelligent, classy, savvy, sassy, loyal, full of life, cultured, well-traveled, positive and optimistic, witty, honest, sweet, genuine, and kind-hearted woman that is in search of what everyone wants....Someone that will always and forever be my friend and soulmate. I am not in a rush to be anyone's girlfriend or head down the aisle to the alter. But, at the same time, I am not in search of casual relationships and one-time meetings that go nowhere. I am busy and value my time, as I would someone that I may have a connection with. I am very direct and don't really beat around the bush with most things. But, I always try to be respectful and never rude in giving my opinions or with the things that I say. I am well aware that, at the end of the day, the only thing one really has is their reputation. And, I want to be thought of in the highest regards by anyone that I should meet here or anywhere else. I may not be able to verbally express or write a well-thought paragraph on exactly what I am looking. However, I know what I want and presume that those I will meet understand, or perhaps even feel the same. I am not one to force or push anything with anyone, and I believe in taking time for feelings and emotions to develop naturally. Having been married before, for 8 years to be exact, I do take the art of friendship, dating and exploring the blossoming of a potential relationship seriously. I will never play games, and I expect the same in return of anyone that I informally chat with, and especially with anyone that I go to the next level with by meeting in person.
I have a love of many things, including my family, friends, higher education, the arts (music, dance, art, theatre, fashion, interior design, and everything in between), my spiritual life/relationship with God, community service/volunteering, and just an overall desire to have a good time doing whatever, whenever, but not with whoever....this matters most to me. I have found that my best friends and relationships have been with those people that I find myself having the time of my life with doing absolutely nothing. My best friendships/relationships have been those in which you can go weeks or even months without seeing or talking to each other, yet instill, you are able to pick right up where you left off as though no time has passed at all. I have many goals and aspirations. Too many to write, in fact. These things are best discovered in a more intimate setting and over time. I believe friendships/relationships require work on both parts and keeps the desire going when there is some mystery left between two people. I don't lead people on, as I don't want to be responsible for standing in the way of one finding their soulmate. I keep in mind the feelings of others and never intentionally try to hurt, offend or degrade in any way. I not only want the best for myself, but I am being sincere when I say that I care deeply about others and want the best for them, as well. I will go on record saying that while I am successful and independent and know what I bring to the table, I love a man that understands this, but is confident in taking the lead in a relationship. I am as feminine as a woman can possibly be. I like being a woman, but I LOVE being treated like a woman even more.
I don't feel that I have a certain 'type,' but I am confident and believe in the theory that I will know when I meet the one for me. When it comes to finally meeting fir the first time, there is no formula on how this should go. If you have truly taken the time to get to know me a little first, then I have no doubt that whatever you suggest will be 'perfect' for us. No pressure. :) I am a rather private woman when it comes to expressing my emotions and feelings of a romantic nature. But, don't worry. If it's you and the feelings are mutual, I think you, too, will know it There really will be no need for words between us.